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Men's Community

"When men open the door to genuine brotherhood, they begin to overcome the loneliness that so many carry. In the company of other men, they can begin to find their fire again."

-Robert Bly

MISSION

Establish and maintain a welcoming and accessible community for men that promotes authenticity, healing, self-discovery, and expression of our best and highest selves.

PILLARS

TOOLS

Practices For​

• Body

• Emotions

• Mind

• Soul

COMMUNITY

Building trust and connections with likeminded men, in order to rewild, reclaim, and restore embodied masculinity.

SUPPORT

Writing permission slips for ourselves encourages others to develop the same permission to understand and embody their best and highest selves

PURPOSE

For too long, men have had to shoulder the rigors of life, while feeling alone. Many of us were not initiated into manhood and adulthood with the tools or role models that cultivate a healthy understanding of ourselves or our place  and purpose in the world.

This group does not strive to define what "healthy masculinity" means or what it should look like in the world. Instead this group strives as a collective group of experimenters, permission slip writers, thinkers, and doers who are practicing the double work of shedding misconceived notions of masculinity, while simultaneously accessing the inner wisdom of what it means to be our most authentic selves.

 

Authenticity is not a thinking process. It is a feeling and experiencing process. The purpose of the group is to help all participants to feel safe enough to access his deepest wisdom and allowing ourselves to practice letting it rise and radiate outwardly. 

We have zero religious or spiritual affiliation, yet we invite all to bring their beliefs into the soup in order to witness others and be witnessed in our truest and highest self. 

Still not sure if this is for you? Reach out. I'd love to personally answer any questions you might have.

GROUP DETAILS

DIRECTION

We strive to have a number of different events and activities each month to give ample opportunity to connect, learn, and shine.

Events include Men's Circles, Co-Ed Gatherings,  Hikes, Book Clubs, Sweat Lodges, and other events. In addition, members host their own events, so this becomes a plug into those spaces as well.

All men or male-identifying adults. Teenagers can attend with parent / guardian support.

This group serves the Salt Lake Valley, but is open to anyone in person. The virtual group is open to the world.

WHO

EVENT CADENCE

MEN'S CIRCLE

Second Monday of the Month

6:00 PM - 9:00 PM

Warm Months: Parks & Backyards throughout Salt Lake Valley.

Cold Months: Salt Lake County Government Building

Free to All • Donations Accepted

HIKES

Mid-month (Usually on the weekend)

Hikes are often Co-ed. Times Vary by Season & Location

Free to All

VIRTUAL GROUP

First & Third Mondays of the Month

5:30 - 7:00 PM Mountain

Held on Zoom / Discord Platforms

Drop-ins Welcome

BOOK CLUB

Starts First of the Month

Book Chat Group

Gather at month's end to discuss.

Discussion often happens at Sweat Lodge.

Final Discussion / Sweat Lodge in Draper, Utah

Cost: Free, Must obtain book on your own.

Sweat Lodge: Cost Involved. See Below.

Men's Circle

WAYFINDERS MEN'S CIRCLE

UPCOMING EVENT

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April 13, 2026

6:00 - 9:00 PM

Bluffdale, Utah • Address given at RSVP

Free to All • Donations Accepted

The Wellness Farm Foundation

First-Comers Welcome!

Book Club

BOOK CLUB

UPCOMING EVENT

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Lunar Period Reading

March 18 - April 16

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In this generation-defining self-help guide, a superstar blogger cuts through the crap to show us how to stop trying to be "positive" all the time so that we can truly become better, happier people.

For decades, we’ve been told that positive thinking is the key to a happy, rich life. "F**k positivity," Mark Manson says. "Let’s be honest, shit is f**ked and we have to live with it." In his wildly popular Internet blog, Manson doesn’t sugarcoat or equivocate. He tells it like it is—a dose of raw, refreshing, honest truth that is sorely lacking today. The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F**k is his antidote to the coddling, let’s-all-feel-good mindset that has infected modern society and spoiled a generation, rewarding them with gold medals just for showing up.

Discussion

April 16, 2026

6:00 - 9:00 PM

Fisher Brewery

Reading Encouraged, but not required

Hike

HIKE

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TBA • APRIL

8:00 AM

Trail Name: TBD

Mileage:

Elevation Gain:

Moderate Hike

Virtual Group

VIRTUAL MEN'S CIRCLE

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1st and 3rd Wednesdays

5:30 PM - 7:00 PM Mountain Time

Open to Worldwide Participants

DETAILS

An on-going share circle and bite-sized workshop space.

Start anytime. Drop-ins welcome.

Hosted on Discord App

ADDITIONAL EVENTS
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5K Friday

Details:​

Sam Schofield leads a weekly 5K Friday group that meets throughout the Salt Lake Valley every Friday at 6 AM.

He hosts a signal chat and also posts the meet-up information every week on his Instagram page.​

GROUP GUIDELINES

Confidentiality​

​Share only from your own experience without sharing the experience or vulnerability of another participant both within and particularly beyond the group gathering.​

He hosts a signal chat and also posts the meet-up information every week on his Instagram page.

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Photography​

​Photography is allowed and encouraged. Anyone wishing to not be featured in any photos will absolutely be honored by communicating to Tony or another regularly attending group member.

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Honor Self​

​Feeling safe is each individual’s responsibility. Participation is completely voluntary. Leaning into one’s edges is an offering, but not an obligation. Make your own desired experience top priority at all times keeping in mind this can feel therapeutic, but it is not professional therapy.

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Ownership​

​Speaking in “I” rather than “you” or “We all” statements helps cultivate ownership, while also honoring that each individual’s experience in life is unique. Consider the difference in saying, “I have road rage,” vs. “You know, we get road rage."

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Sacred Witness​

​Witnessing each other without judgement and bias is perhaps the group’s greatest strength. Refrain from advice giving and personal reflection without expressed consent.

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Sales-Pitch-Free Zone​

​It is appropriate to inform the group of your talents, expertise, and offerings so long as it can be done without a sales pitch. Allow information to be the only invitation for each group members to pursue additional details.

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World-wide Sessions offered  virtually •  In-person sessions offered in Utah.

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